How many dates until it is "safe" to get her a christmas present - i dont want to scare her off or look pansy?

last year i found myself with the same question and got her something small.


she flaked and stopped returning calls etc.


DONT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN.


i just started seeing a very special lady and by christmas we will have probably gone on 6 or so dates...


didnt know if that was pushing it or if i was safe.


please keep in mind im not talking diamonds...


i was thinking either some hand hammered silver earrings ($35) or a nice journal or something....


If you think its safe which would be better....unless you have another suggestion.


thanks for the answers...

How many dates until it is "safe" to get her a christmas present - i dont want to scare her off or look pansy?
well, if its offical i think u should get her something dat express how much u lov her....dont forget, its not all about da expenses, its about how yall feel for each otha
Reply:Yes - go with something small and simple - based on something she likes. Does she like something lots and lots? Base the gift on that.
Reply:all girls like for the guy that they r interested in to get them something,the other girl was probably not that in to in the first place, if yu think that she would apreciate a gift from u then you should, but it cant be something that she would feel pressured by,like a teddy bear, but make sure it doesnt say anything mushy on it.
Reply:hmmm, try something more personel, like a music cd, jewelery my be implying something serious, if you have only dated a few times, keep it simple.