i met this girl a week ago, last night was the second time i'd seen her, although we talked like 3-4 times but anyways she looked at me in the eyes and i looked awayn adn she leaned in to kiss me and i just hugged her and said i had to go, should i move on, how do i fix the situation a better way, today is her birthday what should i do? should i just go kiss her the moment i see her? (last night we were all alone, she's usually with friends)
I acted like a pansy last night, is there any way to rectify the situation?
Look, I know it feels like a big thing. It's absolutely NOTHING.Even some people here would have you believe it matters. How many seconds was it out of your life? Her life? It's nothing. Do as suggested - Gift, her house, take her when you get an opportunity and just tell her - "This is for yesterday" - you'll both laugh and it will be better than funny - a story to tell to your grandkids - DO make it a GREAT kiss - pull her in, hold her close and kiss her with your entire body. Make her happy she let it age overnight...(wink*)
Reply:i think i'd leave her a message, and maybe even ask her out. A coffee for her birthday? A coke? A beer? (giggles) whatever it is you do. I think either way is OK, really,it's just not a critical thing. Report It
Reply:just go up to her, kiss her, and say "i should have done that yesterday"
will be very romantic :-) well i think it will be anyway...
Reply:no. you should be playful and confident and forget about last night. If she brings up last night again in the future, just simply say that you had a lot on your mind
dont be ashamed to be yourself with a woman, she was probably curious as to why that happened last night, but understands that your human
you dont always have to be a tough guy, just dont make it a habit to be stand offish
we all have bad days ...its cool.
Buy her something nice to open at the party...and later....give her a gift that says i really am glad we are together...
perhaps a necklace with a heart on it....small amount of rose gold on the heart would be nice (doesnt cost very much...but makes a great statement)
Go to wal-mart....they have pretty jewelry that doesnt cost much
Reply:call her and tell her ''hey____ i was thinking of you and i want to_____ so hows your friday schedul looking.'
Reply:Chicks dig honesty, %26amp; everyone does something dumb like that at some point. I would be honest %26amp; say "sorry about being a dork the last time I saw you - I don't know what happened there. Anyway, happy birthday." Then give her a big hug %26amp; a kiss on the cheek, %26amp; do your best not to make another mistake like that!
DON'T kiss her the moment you see her!! A guy I knew made the same mistake you did %26amp; the next time I saw him he kissed me as soon as he saw me %26amp; it really pissed me off!
Reply:Get over it and go see her on her birthday. Buy her a nice gift. Don't just walk in and kiss her. Wait again for the right moment. You can show her you love her ouside of physical intimacy. Give her a card and write something special in it.
Reply:Well one thing that you can do is get the guts up and buy her a rose (pink). Pink means happiness and that will show her that she makes your happy. And I white Teddy Bear and go up to her in front of all her friends and then give her the items and ask her to go to the movies with you. You will win her heart that way. Good luck!
Reply:do not just kiss her on the cheek! thats a sign that you dont want any kind of relationship you should apoligize for you cold feet and give her a big kiss!
Reply:Ouch. Well it seems she expects now that you weren't ready for it. Now I'd say to turn that back around and catch her by surprise. I would see her and after a few minutes catch her by surprise and say sorry i took so long to do this and kiss her on the spot. Hope that helps
Reply:YOU F*CKED UP YOU F*CKED UP YOU F*CKED UP
Reply:You just pulled the ultimate let down for her.
It takes guts for a chick to make the first move.
IF you ever get a chance to be alone like that with her again... YOU kiss her this time.
Reply:Get her alone, say 'I was saving it for today' or something to that effect [since it's her birthday] and give her a kiss.
Reply:when a girl feels rejected they usually close the door forever, but you never know
your a prince and deserve the best
Hugs IN JESUS
A hug can be a wondrous thing,
When it's shared it's nice.
A hug can make you feel so good,
And has a low, low price.
A hug will help the feelings grow,
Of love and happiness.
A hug can mean more to a girl,
Than even a new dress.
A hug that's given out of love,
For lust need not be done.
The need to hold and be then held,
Is strong in a every one.
A hug to me is comfort now,
For all my hurts and ails.
It warms my heart and then my soul,
Of this it never fails.
So hug me dear, and hug me long,
And hug me all the day.
And hug me til the cows come home,
I thank you then I'll say.
okay you can have one... i am pretty sure if you have arms you can have a hug... but if youre asking permission yes ..
'HUG'
that feel better??... im not gunna write you a poem or any of the other stuff other people did... ill jus say if youre into songwriting write your feelings on a page and make a song... its my own kind of hug
hope this helps
sweet p
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nO! THERE IS BETTER THAN A HUG-HUGGLES!good
first relax
then get some help from above and you will have the directions you need=a ray of hope too=EVERYDAY SURVIVAL KIT!!!
ToothpickRubberband
Band Aid Pencil
Eraser Chewing Gum
Mint Candy kissMuah
Tea Bag HERESWHY . Toothpick -- to remind you to pick out the good qualities in others. (Matt 7:1)
Rubberband -- to remind you to be flexible, things might not always go the way you want, but it will work out. (Romans 8:28)
Band Aid -- to remind you to heal hurt feelings... yours or someone else's. (Col. 3:12-14)
Pencil -- to remind you to list your blessings everyday. (Eph 1:3)
Eraser -- to remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and its okay.
(Gen. 50:15-21)
Chewing Gum-- to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything. (Phil. 4:13)
Mint -- to remind you that you are worth a mint to your heavenly father. (John 3:16-17)
Candy Kiss -- to remind you that everyone needs a kiss or a hug everyday. (1 John 4:7)
Tea Bag -- to remind you to relax daily and to think about God's Blessings. (1 Thess 5:18)
This is my gift to you. JESUS LOVES YOU -- don't ever forget it.
To the world, you may just be somebody... but to somebody, you may be the world.
old enought to understand sin and let Jesus into their heart to be their friend, amen John 3 %26amp; Revelation 3:19%26amp;20 " I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin -even one lie, if you ask forgiveness and let me in to be your friend."
Send this to anyone who you think needs to know that they are loved by someone in their lives. Make someone's day just a little brighter today!
prayin for you too with this problem.
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wow! awesome answer!
best wishes for you in this situation too
these are a few lol things he may chose to fight with you about
Things We Do To Drive Men Crazy!!
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1. Do not say what we mean. Ever.
2. Be ambiguous. Always.
3 NOT FINISH THE LIST
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Reply:You should get her something for her birthday and if you get some alone time, you can lean in for a kiss, hopefully she don't give you a hug like you did her last night. If she does, so what. You will get another chance.
Reply:ooo thats tricky a rejected girl gets really upset and feels you no rejected, buy her a rose and a teddy bear and kiss her and act like nothing happen that way she can thinkl you just didnt notice she was gonna kiss you!
by the way if you go with pink for happiness get light pink , not pale pink pale pink means grace or white rose they mean truth and innocence
i would go with Lilac Roses
Lilac roses indicate the sender has fallen in love at first sight with the recipient and is enchanted.
Reply:kiss her on the cheek and wish her a happy birthday
Reply:tivovovo is smooth... i'd try what she mentioned "i was saving it for today." just think of possible things she might ask why, practice answering them in a mirror so you don't mess up this time.
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